5 elements to become an attractive man and a challenge for women

 They are different things than normal men do and very helpful in creating attraction:

1. NOT TOO SHOW INTEREST

• Do not submit until she asks for your name.

• Avoid questions backpack as "What kind of man you like?", "I am your type?" Or "I bet you have a boyfriend ..."

• Do not stand next to her.

• Do not give your full attention to it when there are other people around them.

2. LET HER MAKE AN EFFORT

• Create the purpose of inviting you to leave it, or invite her to join some activity that you already have planned.

• Say no or ignore the first calls her. ("Let's have coffee every day?" "I do not know ..."). Do it for fun.

• Make sure she qualifies for you. ("What makes you different from other women? Tell me three things that men like you, and please do not say you're beautiful").

• Do other games that help you lead the conversation and that you make the switch.

3. USE Takeaways

• Make her smile and walk away.

• Talk to someone else while she is with.

• Be unpredictable, put his arm around her, then ignore her and start talking to your friends.

• If she starts talking on the phone, go away or better: take out your phone and say it loud "Yes, I was talking to a woman but she is a little maluqinha ..."

4. PLAY WITH IT

• Tell her she is trying to seduce you.

• Suggest that she take you to dinner if she wants to spend more time with you.

5. BODY LANGUAGE

• Stay relaxed and do not bend, nor to hear what she says.

• Most men orient their body language directly to women since the beginning of the conversation. This communicates interest too early, you can even intimidate the woman. Instead of looking to talk to her side and expect it to turn your body to you before you do the same.

• Keep your distance and let them come closer. The more you give away a woman, she feels more comfortable. You can start a conversation to 2 meters away, there needs to be on top of it.

These tips are enough to lure you start learning how to be a challenge.

HOW TO BE A CHALLENGE FOR WOMEN

Today I will talk about something that is very important to win and women that most men will never discover: how to be a challenge for women.

Women like a challenge. Being a challenge is the most powerful thing you can do to differentiate yourself from other men in a bar or anywhere else.

A few years ago a friend told me "Every woman likes a challenge." At the time I thought I could see those words, but I did not understand the importance of the concept.

The reality is that most men to play upon women and act as if they were lucky to have an opportunity to be with them. Most men are "easy" and women know they get a man whenever they want ... and often the man they want.

You can create a big advantage when it gives a challenge to a woman, so you can change things and get it behind you.

It took me long to figure out what to do to become a challenge in the eyes of women. I asked several friends what makes a man a challenge and they said the following:

• He does not respond to phone calls when she is waiting, and not call when he said he would call.

• It is not always available to be with her.

• it is difficult to say whether he likes it or not ... she is always in doubt.

When a man is a challenge you can create GREAT ATTRACTION. It is human nature to want the forbidden fruit and the women are so used to meeting men "easy" that the mere fact of not being "easy" may be enough for her to chase you.

But she has not called me first so I DO NOT answer? In other words, she did not have to like me to care whether I like it or not?

CREATING THE CHALLENGE FROM THE START

There are some subtle ways to convey to a woman that you're a challenge from the moment he met her. To see this it should be noted that men are indeed a "challenge". It is men who already has a wife, or those who have several wives behind them. What these men do not others do to create attraction in women?

6 THINGS MEN DO TO ATTRACT WOMEN, BUT SAYS SCIENCE BE WRONG

I had fun reading this issue in Cracked.com. Did not make a translation in full (as it is a bit big) but to summarize some of its main ideas:

6. Talk to her

The study, "trying to impress" a woman hinders our cognitive functions. Men who spent a few minutes in the company of attractive women fared worse on tests measuring cognitive functions. Therefore it is difficult in that they hit their little chat in the club ...

5. Show interest

Many practitioners of the art of seduction say the key to win a beautiful woman is not showing much interest right away. The best solution would be to make friends with her friends first and leave the most beautiful last (which kind of makes sense, because not getting the attention it's used, it can end up with this new behaviors to get attention - like pulling matter with you, making you feel a stud!).

In addition, the social networking site OKCupid.com found photos of 7,000 users and found that men who did not look directly at the camera in your pictures received more messages than those who watched.

4. Dance

Not everyone in the club dancing risks, especially after this news: Dr Peter Lovatt compared the dance styles and levels of trust than 14,000 people and concluded that dancing bad signal that you can not very fertile, or a partner inadequate. The way is to train enough to give the impression that too much testosterone!

3. Praising the beauty of them

Did you know that they want to be appreciated personality too? The same site relacionamendos analyzed 500,000 messages and found that words like "cute" (cutie), "beautiful" (beautiful) and sexy diminish the chances of response. Conclusion: try not to look like you just think that.

2. Being Nice Guy

Many guys like to complain that when a girl is too close but can only stay in the friendship. What the good guys already knew was confirmed by this research: they like the miscreants! Traits such as narcissism, impulsivity and risk behavior in people can be harmful in excess or even frowned upon by some, but proved a good evolutionary strategy to spread their genes (and therefore are far from us).

1. Having the wrong name

Seriously: This study of 6,000 people showed that some names are more associated with beauty (Sophie and Ryan), luck (Lucy and Jack) and professional success (Elizabeth and James) than others. Certainly influences our culture and history of life. It would be nice to play someone this research in Brazil. Meanwhile, if you have questions regarding your name, you better get a nickname!

Hoping to win that chick you can also see this post with 9 tips for becoming more attractive, or as a last resort, give drink to her!

9 tips for becoming more attractive

Few people consider themselves satisfied with their appearance, but it's not just the beauty that defines a person - their behaviors also perform this function, which can leave you more (or less) attractive. Here is a list of tips on how to become more attractive, which does not involve having the coolest clothes, the body more or spotted the wallet more full of money:

1. Be truthful.

Many try to pass a fake ID, but they do not always succeed. There is no reason to want to hide their flaws, as nobody is perfect - better than trying to hide them is to exalt its qualities. Accept and enjoy who you are.

2. Talk to goal.

Try to talk about interesting things instead of just "fill time". Abraham Lincoln once said: "It is better to remain silent and let them think you're an idiot than open your mouth and end the doubt."

3. Listen.

Few people really know how to do this. Try listening to people instead of judging them while waiting his turn to speak. Talking to a wall is never cool.

4. Ria.

Although it is possible to exaggerate the laughter, laughter is almost always seen with good looks. Good sense of humor is one of the qualities Tracks on people, nobody likes people upset.

5. Smile.

Combined with laughter, this is one of the best ways to spend a good image. Smiling shows you more open to people around you.

6. Stop complaining.

It may even be that much of their thoughts involving complain. But to hear someone complaining all the time is never legal, there is always a good time or most interesting topics to talk about.

7. Feel attractive.

You will not look like an attractive person if you do not feel that way. Try to be happy with who you are and start doing things that please you - you feel good and therefore will get through this image to others.

8. Be open.

Nobody likes someone closed and inaccessible. Be willing to create authentic relationships with people around you and see the benefits that will arise. Everyone has something good to share.

9. Walk with your head up.

You walk looking down? A small change in your posture when walking a lot will change the way people perceive (and even yourself).

Disinterest

Normally a girl it is disinterested, when a man is interested. give him a little of his confidence, but without overdoing it: "I am a premium, you have to fight to get me ..." or "I'm so good I do not need to call you any." Generally women like a challenge, and when picking a man who sees someone got up to a game of seduction.

THE ART OF TALK

Talking to a woman is not the same thing as talking to a man. You should speak in a seductive way. Never talk about family, computer games, school, work, etc ... Oh I've forgotten, nor should you talk about. Keep the mystery for you is crucial to increase the interest of a certain woman in you.

WAIT FOR THE OPENING

In order to seduce a woman, do not throw head (as previously stated). All women will give you a signal if they are interested in you. So pay attention to the conduct of hot: That hot woman who ignored him and now it continues to speak to you, or who now dresses and behaves quite differently in front of you.